How I Work
An orientation to how sessions are held and what you can expect when we work together
Rooted in Tantra and spiritual sexuality, my work supports the restoration of natural life force and the body’s capacity to learn through pleasure.
HOW SESSIONS ARE HELD
This work bridges the ancient and the modern. Rooted in Tantric Laya Yoga and shamanic sexuality, and drawing from contemporary trauma-informed and body-based approaches, sessions are held with clear agreements and close attention to your body, boundaries, and experience.
HOW A SESSION UNFOLDS
We begin with conversation and orientation. Before any hands-on work, boundaries and intentions are named and agreed upon, and those agreements are honored throughout the session.
Sessions are guided by what is happening in the moment rather than by a script or fixed agenda. Practice and technique are woven into the work to explore sensation, breath, touch, presence, and choice.
Attention is given to pacing and to what supports real learning and new patterns, allowing shifts from pain or numbness into pleasure, vitality, and lasting change. This work unfolds through presence and listening rather than performance or control. Technique is a pathway into presence.
CONSENT, AGENCY, AND RESPONSIBILITY
Consent and clear agreements are central to my work. The work is collaborative, and responsibility is shared.
I do not push people or use pressure to create change, and I do not collude with avoidance or bypass what wants attention. I meet you where you are and invite honesty, choice, and engagement.
Nothing is forced and nothing is bypassed. You are the authority on your own experience. My responsibility is to create a container where it is safe to meet yourself as you are, at your own pace. This allows depth, intensity, and vulnerability without coercion or collapse.
This is not therapy and it is not a guru relationship. It is a grounded, adult collaboration that supports self-trust, individual autonomy, and responsibility in how you relate to yourself and others.
Ann is honest, kind, and attentive, and she makes a consistent effort to communicate in ways that help me feel heard and safe. I do not hold spiritual beliefs, and I was clear about this from the beginning. Ann respected this completely and worked with me in a way that honored my perspective. The work was genuinely beneficial without requiring belief in anything I don’t hold.
Anonymous Male, PhD, Mathematical Sciences
WORKING WITH DESIRE AND TRAUMA
People come with real concerns and desires that are physical, emotional, relational, and sexual. Some are navigating shutdown or loss of function, including difficulty opening, trusting, or feeling. Others come because they want more pleasure and passion, greater orgasmic capacity, and a more satisfying experience of intimacy.
Desire is welcome here and met directly, with skill and integrity, including the capacity to hold full sexual expression and intensity. My interest is not performance, but supporting clarity, choice, and real engagement with pleasure.
Trauma is met with attunement and respect for the nervous system. The work supports coherence and safety, allowing held emotions and patterns to shift without pathologizing, pressure, or pity.
What matters is not the form desire takes, but what supports integration, healing, and real movement in your life. Nothing is forced and nothing is bypassed.
A session with Ann is one of those milestones that will change your life if you have the capacity to embrace it. My soul feels like it has moved into additional space I didn’t know I had, with a view of a new world. She helped me recognize and work with energy I had always sensed was there. My sense of inner space expanded in a way that feels grounded and usable in real life. Ann doesn’t push you through a gate. She helps remove obstacles so you can choose whether to step forward or not. The choice is always yours.
K.A., Male, 62, CEO
FROM PATTERN TO PRESENCE
At its core, this work is about the difference between pattern and presence.
Karmic pattern is how pain repeats when it has not yet been seen or met. It is familiar and predictable, and we often cling to it even when it limits pleasure and choice.
Presence opens a different possibility for learning through pleasure, opportunity, and choice.
My role is to support the shift out of pattern and into presence, where vitality and responsiveness can return.
SEXUAL ENERGY AS CREATIVE ENERGY
Sexual energy is creative energy. It shapes our bodies, our relationships, and how we live. When accessed consciously, it becomes a source of healing, vitality, clarity, and power.
This work is about learning to relate to life force with awareness, choice, and integrity.
An Invitation
If this way of working resonates, you’re invited to begin the intake process. From there, we’ll explore whether working together is a good fit and discuss next steps.